Why we should pay the First Lady (or Gentleman) a salary
“I think I am more like a state prisoner than anything else.”
This is how Martha Washington described her life as first lady in a letter to her niece in 1789. Abigail Adams called her time in the Capital a “splendid misery.” And in 2013, in conversation with former First Lady Laura Bush, Michelle Obama joked that life in the White House may at times feel prison-like, but it was a “really nice prison.”
A lot has changed about the role of the first spouse in the last 227 years of the presidency—like how women have property rights, can vote, and no longer wear bonnets on a regular basis—but a few things have not.
The position remains, then as now, a grind and a hustle. And its responsibilities—a combination of statecraft and heavily gendered expectations around homemaking and hostessing—are basically treated like a volunteer shift that lasts between four to eight years.
President Obama receives a salary of $400,000 a year. Michelle Obama, a Harvard-educated former lawyer and executive who leads national initiatives on nutrition and veteran families, travels nationally and internationally as an unofficial ambassador, and keeps an extensive calendar of public appearances, interviews, and other speaking engagements, receives nothing.
But each of the jobs within the job—from non-profit management to event planning—comes with an actual salary range in the world outside the White House.
When Money magazine consulted salary experts in 2016 to come up with a composite number for all of the work the first spouse takes on, they landed on $173,500. As Money noted, the number would have been more than $200,000 if the the lower-compensated (and heavily gendered, I’d add) roles like day care center teacher and licensed professional counselor hadn’t “brought down the overall average.”
It’s hard to imagine this kind of high-profile, government-adjacent position going uncompensated for so long if it was historically held by men.
“The role is based on the lives of upper class women in the late 18th century, 19th century, and early 20th century—when women of means didn’t work for pay outside the home and were expected, largely, to play the role of hostess,” Katherine Jellison, a professor of history at Ohio University and a scholar of first families, told me in a phone interview this week.