Is 'The Bachelor' using ideas from mid-2000s dating shows?
On Monday, Olivia Caridi cemented her role as The Bachelor villain when she suggested that listening to another contestant talking about her children was like watching an episode of Teen Mom. Olivia was wrong, The Bachelor has very little in common with Teen Mom, but I’m starting to think that this season looks a whole lot like some delightfully trashy mid-2000s dating shows.
The Bachelor first aired in 2002, one year after Elimidate and The 5th Wheel, one year before Room Raiders, and two years before Date My Mom. Aside from the fact that these are all dating reality shows, The Bachelor does not share DNA with any of these. Elimidate and The 5th Wheel were raunchy and trashy, Room Raiders and Date My Mom suggestive and goofy. Nobody expected contestants to spark a relationship through any of these shows. It would have been, frankly, shocking.
The Bachelor, on the other hand, is and always has been a show that commands viewers to expect love. Hypothetically, the pleasure we get out of the show is directly tied to whether or not the bachelor (or bachelorette!) finds a fiancee. It’s a successful format, with well-defined rules and a sheen of cheap class that makes you want to drink a glass of wine while you watch.
But after decades on the air, The Bachelor fourth wall has been broken and the formula’s been exposed. The contestants easily fill the roles of their predecessors and come to the show prepared with a script and, more often than not, a crush on the Bachelor. The show, in response, has gotten more self-aware, introducing a post-show, hashtag-driven recap episode (Bachelor Live) that tries to sprinkle some Andy Cohen magic onto the post-Bachelor block, bringing in professional comedians (Jimmy Kimmel, Amy Schumer, Kevin Hart) to crank up the yuks, and becoming more flexible with the format.
The show has also, I think, been doing some old things—like leaning on the tropes of Elimidate, The 5th Wheel, Room Raiders and Date My Mom. Here’s how those shows have been sneaking into this season’s episodes.
Date My Mom
On Date My Mom, the dater would take the mothers of three potential datees out on dates. The dater would then determine which daughter or son he or she would like to date. There were two strategies: Go with the hottest mom and hope the genetics work out in your favor, or pick a daughter based on personality, as described by her mom. The most cunning did a combination of the two.
During the fourth episode of this season of The Bachelor, Ben Higgins paid a visit to the home of Emily and Haley Ferguson. That’s highly unorthodox: Home visits are generally reserved for the contestant the bachelor is expected to have sex with in the Fantasy Suite. They are not supposed to be an opportunity for the Bachelor to go on a date with the contestants’ mother, which will in turn help him determine who to ditch.
But that’s exactly what happened here, and after chatting with Mrs. Ferguson about which twin was more suitable to his tastes, Ben left Haley behind.
Room Raiders
That episode also gave us a taste of MTV’s Room Raiders, where the dater goes through a potential datee’s room while he, or she, watches the search in horror via telecast.