Why the 'Oscars for porn' quietly canceled its first-ever panel on sexual assault
When done right, pornography creates the illusion that its stars exist in a state of perpetual fantasy. But what may look like great sex to viewers is often a series of carefully negotiated agreements between professional actors and their directors—and as some of the recent assault allegations against adult film megastar James Deen reveal, things don’t always go as planned.
Which is why, in the wake of these charges, industry insiders and observers alike are putting a spotlight on the question of consent: What does “yes means yes” look like when the cameras are rolling—and when they stop?
In what would have been a surprisingly proactive move to address this question, Adult Video News, the organizers of what are widely known as the “Oscars for porn,” announced in December that they would be hosting a panel on consent at the popular adult expo leading up to the awards—mere hours before prizes were to be handed out at a ceremony in Las Vegas.
Not only that, but a spokesperson told me that the panel would feature Stoya herself—the writer, adult film performer, and ex-girlfriend of Deen, who publicly accused the actor of rape and inspired at least eight other women to come forward with their own allegations of assault. Even before accusing Deen, Stoya wrote about the importance of consent in pornography in a first-person column for Fusion, arguing that it is “absolutely necessary.”
So why was the event quietly cancelled, without so much as a tweet? Why was it swept under the rug at a time when public pressure to confront the issue both in adult film and the wider world has never been greater? The event’s organizers told me it came down to “a lack of participation,” but interviews with adult industry insiders paint a more complex picture of what might have happened.
On AVN’s website, the panel was billed as “Consent Degrees: Yes, No and Everything in Between,” and the description suggested a thoughtful and meaningful discussion:
“Adult performers of all gender orientations operate in a world where they must create the illusion of ecstasy even though sometimes they may not always be having a good time. We’ll bring together a group of experts and industry veterans to discuss how the adult community can work to make sure performers—particularly young newcomers—are comfortable about speaking up if they’re not really down with what’s happening on and off set.”
The panel seemed poised to move the conversation about consent forward—and the timing was significant, given that Deen was nominated for nearly three dozen awards that evening, including Male Performer of the Year, Best Actor, and Best Director. (Deen, it should be noted, has not been charged with a crime and has denied all allegations.) What better moment to self-reflect than shortly before the industry would gather to toast its accomplishments?
For those who missed the maelstrom of headlines last fall, Deen has been accused of sexual assault both in private settings (by Stoya and others) and on adult film sets, while the cameras were rolling and when they stopped—it’s the allegations of assault on set that have led some to call for a closer look at how consent is handled in the industry. Actress Amber Rayne claims Deen hit her in the face while they were shooting a rough scene. Actress Tori Lux alleges Deen forced her down on a mattress, straddled her, and struck her in the face on a film set, before grabbing her by the hair and shoving her face into his crotch against her will. “I felt pressured to maintain a professional demeanor as this was a major porn set, with other people present and failing to intervene,” Lux wrote on The Daily Beast. “My goal in writing this is not to paint the industry as a whole as oppressive or dangerous, but to shed some light on one fucked up personal experience of mine,” she wrote.
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