The Chastity Belt Comeback (NSFW)

Chastity belts were once the scourge of women. Locked into mechanical devices to allow their husbands or fathers to feel secure of their virtue, the belts were cumbersome, unwieldy, and uncomfortable. The design kept a woman’s virginity “safe,” but wasn’t exactly comfortable. Not to mention what a HUGE breach of trust it was to monitor your wife or daughter in that manner,

Nowadays, chastity belts serve a different sexier purpose, and are being embraced by celebrities and kink-sters alike. They are not for “confining” anymore, in the way they were traditionally used. As well as changing their role in the home, many modern belts look radically different, think hi-tech cyborg like electronics blended with WiFi sensors. Though you still have metal and leather versions for those who are old school.

For example, Rihanna gratuitously wore a jewel encrusted one for video “Pour It up.”

As she shook and thrusted to the lyrics, her belt was a direct contradiction to her actions. She was displaying, it was protecting. It’s unlikely Rihanna was consciously making a “hands off” statement in the video. Indeed it’s more likely she was embracing a role reversal power play. She refused to be owned by something traditionally used to enforce power over women. She’s owning it, rather than being owned. She has the key to her belt; she is the one in charge of her sex life.

Many other women are also rethinking the role of the chastity belt. Forget seeing them purely as a form of control and power, now they’re something that can be used to titillate and enjoy – consensually. Those who partake in belt usage call it “chastity play.”

Chastity play involves being denied sexual release. The intimate areas are covered and no matter what the bound one does, they are unable to orgasm till the “keyholder”, the person who locked them into their belt, chooses to unlock them and allow fulfillment. Basically, it’s having an itch, but being unable to scratch it.

Belts for both sexes are being created. They offer different elements.

For example, Chastity Belts for Men offers male chastity belts in a number of finishes (wood, plastic, etc.) complete with a heavy duty padlock.

“The attraction for people that find it interesting is that it puts all the focus on sexuality,” said Lady Regina, a full time dominatrix from Miami-based, Command Performance. “It’s all on the male arousal and controlling that, and men who are submissive find that area more attractive.”